Unexpected meeting in a video chat: how to get out of an awkward situation
One evening, I decided to spend time in a video chat. Turning on the camera, I met an old acquaintance of mine whom I had not seen for a long time. We were not very friendly and parted not on the most positive note. The whole conversation began with an awkward pause, since both of us did not expect this meeting. My reaction was mixed: on the one hand, I wanted to keep the conversation going, but on the other, I did not know how to avoid discussing our past conflict. How would you handle this situation to save face and establish a positive dialogue without bringing up uncomfortable topics?
In this situation, it is important to remain calm and confident. Start with neutral topics: ask how he is doing, what he has been doing lately. This can help relieve the initial tension and avoid awkwardness.
Try to be friendly and sincere. If the conversation does touch on old conflicts, try to show that you have grown and changed since then. Perhaps you should apologize for the past, if this is appropriate. The main thing is not to give in to provocations and maintain dignity.
If you feel that the situation is becoming too uncomfortable and there is no way to change the course of the conversation, you can always politely say goodbye and end the video call. After all, your communication in a video chat should bring joy, not cause stress. Remember that chance encounters are a chance for new positive interactions, and there is no need to be afraid of awkward moments.